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The Art Of Foreplay Foreplay Ideas That Would Drive Any Woman Wild Chapter 1 Introduction The whole idea of this book is to teach you how to put a woman in the mood so that she will desire to have sex with you over and over again . If you are a man who is having difficulty connecting with your partner when the issue of sex arises, this book will help you to overcome that. Foreplay is one thing women can't get enough . W omen are emotional creatures, and that's why they like, enjoy and often need foreplay. So, give her what she wants and she will reciprocate by giving you what you want as well. Unlike men, women don’t get aroused fast and easily. This is because their bodies need help to warm up and the lubrication required for intercourse, and their emotions also dictate that they feel a sense of closeness and mutual respect with their partner. All of this can be achieved through foreplay, which will also help your partner feel desired by you. If you simply want to jump on her and have sex, she'll feel like a tool or a machine designed to get you off. Now, each woman is different, and some might be able to get right to it without any foreplay, but the odds are that your woman will need to get wet first. The ART of Foreplay Since foreplay is important to a woman, I have since discovered as well that a woman’s body was made up just for that. A woman has a lot of erogenous zones on her body that can be stimulated to arouse her sexually. But out of all those erogenous zones, the most important is her BRAIN. That is why a woman feels more sense of romance when she is wi th someone that she likes. This tells you that foreplay should always start from that most important erogenous part of her body which we said is her brain. The following areas of foreplay will be discussed. Mental Foreplay Stimulating Her Erogenous Zones Kissing Chapter 2 Mental Foreplay Foreplay should not start from the bedroom. Once you are already in a relationship, you as the man should be romantic. What I am talking a; bout is that you should mentally alert your partner to b e open to sexual ideas and talk with you. The main thing here is anticipation . ANTICIPATION I believe that anticipation, excitement, and tension are some of the biggest turn-ons that a woman can feel. Women LOVE to wonder what’s coming next. They LOVE to be surprised. They LOVE to be waiting on the edge of their seats. Here are a few ways to do it: Say “I have a surprise for you.” Then say “But I’m not going to give it to you yet... it’s for later.” The surprise can be anything from a piece of chocolate or a soft massage cream that you bought to rub her shoulders. It doesn’t matter. The key is to trigger her curiosity and make her want to know what it is. You can also use your BB or phone to send her a message as well. Put a blindfold on her. Now, this is where it gets interesting. Remember that I told you I am going to help you change the way your wife or p artner sees you. Women LOVE to be blindfolded! Don’t ask, just do it. Go grab a scarf out of her wardrobe (silk if you have it) and put it on her. Remember, women are turned on more by their other senses anyway. Turning their vision off heightens their other senses and makes them even more responsive. When you’re doing something that’s turning her on, STOP. This seems counter-intuitive, but it’s the promise d land . Men like to find what feels good and KEEP DOING IT. Women like to have what feels good taken away... so they can feel some more anticipation because anticipation turns them on higher. Do you get it? Come up with your own ways to build anticipation. Tell her a story about someone that felt anticipation. Just make her anticipate what’s coming next. Talking to a woman during foreplay (or even sex) will stimulate her imagination, and since the best way to sex a woman is through stimulation of her brain, just picture the intense flow of orgasmic pleasure that she'll begin to feel. But mind you, this is not the time to say stupid things like: “what are we taking for dinner tonight?” Instead ask questions and say things that'll get her imagination working. What do you want me to do to you right now? Do you want me to go inside here? Do you want me to lick between your thighs? If you do not have any interesting thing to say, a good idea is just for you to keep quiet. If you can describe how you want to touch her, where and with which of your body parts, she'll visualize it easily and eagerly. The main point here is that If you know how to have sex with her brain (it is a major sexual organ), you can rest assured that she'll be begging you to have sex with the rest of her in due time. Chapter 3 Stimulating Her Erogenous Zones I told you that a woman’s body has a lot of erogenous zones. I am now going to share the hottest zones with you and how to properly handle them. The Erogenous Zones Are: The lips The Clitoris (Vagina area) The Breasts The Wrists Her Feet Her Ears The Nape of Her Neck Her Buttocks Behind her knees 10 .Inner Thighs So, let’s get into them. Her Lips - If you know how to manipulate her lips just right through kissing, licking, sucking and biting, it is very possible that a kiss will lead to a lot more than that. Use your lips, your tongue and your teeth to play with her top and bottom lip and kiss her with absolute passion. Her Breasts – There are two parts to this. Number one is handling the breast alone without touching the nipples. As I'm sure is no surprise to anyone, the breasts are very sexually sensitive and gentle fondling, squeezing, caressing of it is arousing. Plus, it's important to pay attention to more than just her nipples, since her entire breast is packed with nerves, especially the underside. Use your fingertips to draw wide, slow circles, starting around the perimeter of one breast and spiraling in until you're just about at her nipple. Then use your hand to cup and lift the underside of her breast, and lick around her nipple before covering it entirely with your mouth and sucking gently. You can then move on to the nipples and also caress it, lick and suck on the nipples. If she has big enough nipples, you can also old both of them gently with your thumb and middle finger and slowly rub them. If you do this right, it will make her boil with passion. When you find out that there is a specific way that you are doing it that is giving her pleasure, note that and focus on doing more of it to arouse her the more. More on handling the breasts below: Her Wrists – This may not work with every woman anyway but it is well trying. What you have to do to her wrists is to nuzzle and nibble it. The next time you're getting into foreplay with your woman, begin kissing and caressing her wrists and just check how impressed and turned on she'll become! Her Buttocks - Yes, it's true. Lots of women like it when you play around with their behinds. A lot of women like gentle touching and squeezing of the buttocks. Her Feet - Many women enjoy having their feet touched, massaged and some even enjoy having them licked and sucked. Assuming that their feet have been properly cleansed, women enjoy it when their men spend time caressing their soles, toes and ankles. Because these zones can all be ticklish, the sensation of ticklishness can be pleasant for her . Her Ears - Many women enjoy having their ears licked, sucked or kissed. Although blowing in her ear is acceptable, it's not what women enjoy most. Besides the things I have already mentioned, women also like it when you whisper in their ears. Behind Her Knees - Because of all the nerve endings behind the knees, you'd be surprised at how crazy a woman can become when you gently lick or nibble on the back of her knees. Be careful not to overdo it -- the area, after all, is very sensitive and you must be careful not to make the sensation annoying by getting too rough or tickling her too much. Inside of her thighs - The inside of a woman’s thighs are highly sensitive to touching, stroking and licking. Just like the back of the knees, inner thighs also have many nerve endings, therefore when you fondle them, you will turn her on like crazy. Remember not to bite because the area is very sensitive and doing so would only cause her mild pain, which will, in turn, cause you plenty of pain. The Nape of her Neck - Just breathing on this part of her body will give her goose bumps all over. So just imagine her reaction when you use your tongue or teeth to get her aroused. Use your hands too; lift her hair up gently as you bring your mouth closer to her neck. Then, as you sink your teeth into it, pull on her hair slightly so as to give that "I want you so bad" impression. This part of a woman's body is also a good place to start giving her that sensual massage you are famous for and no woman can resist. DEFINITION - The nape is the bottom hairline in the back of your head, because also, that's where the skull meets the neck. The top back of the head is the crown of the head. The Clitoris - The clitoris can be stimulated by using the tongue, the finger or both simultaneously. Some women like to guide their partner as to the specific amount of pressure they enjoy. I hope you learnt from these. I am now going to tell you more about handling the breasts because believe me, this is one powerful erogenous zone that men do not know how to handle very well. Handling Her Breasts in a Unique Way For Maximum Pleasure Breasts come in all shapes and sizes, and some are perky while others are somewhat more "relaxed," so to speak. Some areolas (the darker skin around the nipple) are larger than others, and even nipples themselves come in all shapes and sizes. The bottom line; “we as men love breasts” and women themselves know about that. That is probably why you see some of them showing off a little bit of it just to set us up. And today, you're going to learn about all of the wonderful things you can do with her breasts that you are fortunate enough to have staring you in the face. A Brief Introduction To The Twins When it comes to breasts, all ducts lead to the nipple, which is centered in the areola. The actual breast is composed of fat and breast tissue (slap on a nipple and the fat suddenly becomes beautiful). There is no muscle in the breast; the muscle lies underneath the breast, covering the ribs (commonly referred to as pecs). There are thousands of nerve endings in breasts so the nipples shouldn't be the only aspect that you pay attention to. On that note, it's time to go into details on how to play with them. Women tend to be very proud of their breasts. Not only are they showing them off more than ever before, but they want you to pay serious attention to them during foreplay and lovemaking. Simply grabbing a breast as if it is a piece of fruit and chewing on the nipple is going to get you nowhere fast. That is not impressive, to say the least. Like with the lovemaking experience as a whole, taking it slow is wise. Before you rush to the bedroom to start fondling her away, keep in mind that although many women love it when you fondle their breasts, some find it too soft or too rough approach annoying. Always pay attention to her reaction whenever you perform any action. Hands-on approach When her breasts are exposed and begging to be touched, work your magic by using your hands to lightly outline the outer part of both breasts slowly. This will quickly give her sensations... and her nipples will become erect. Lightly work your hands over them, smoothing your palms over her nipples ever so slightly. The idea here is to tease her and let her imagination run rampant imagining what it's going to feel like when your hot tongue finally comes on them. While she's lying down and her body is at your disposal, use your lips to kiss around the outskirts of her breasts. Start kissing the outline with your moist lips slowly. Another great thing you can do is lightly squeeze her breasts together and kiss down the middle. Make your way close to each nipple, and exhale over them so that she can feel the warmth of what's to come - literally. The tongue works well for licking women's breasts. The beautiful mounds are designed perfectly so that a mouth can cover their tops. But there is plenty of time to get a little rougher. For now, use the tip of your tongue to circle around the areola. Let your tongue glide over her nipples very lightly. If her body jerks or she lets a sudden moan escape from her lips, that's because she's virtually dying for you to take each nipple into your mouth, and suck and nibble away. If her nipples are standing at erection, harden your tongue and flick it back and forth, and slowly take it into your mouth. At this point you will begin to suck and nibble simultaneously. If her nipples are not hard, you can usually manipulate each one by sucking it and then releasing it from your mouth whilst inhaling so that it creates an icy sensation. Add some Variety By now, you already know how important variety is when it comes to the subject of having sex that is really fun. Use your hands to hold her breasts while you suck on them, one at a time. You don’t have to squeeze or bring each nipple to your mouth. Instead, use your hands simply to cup them while you bring your mouth to one then the other. As well, don't just stick to the nipple. Lick that space between her breasts, lick right under her breasts -- don't limit yourself to the main feature. Because these areas don't get much attention, they are likely to be sensitive to the tongue. And if you are mastered in the art of doing more than one thing at a time, later on, you can still also be working on her breasts when you've already penetrated her either with your finger or your penis. This can be easily achieved when you get into the side by side position (facing each other), suck on one nipple, and lightly pinch the other with your thumb and index finger. This will speed up the amount of time that she needs to orgasm because her whole body will be boiling with maximum pleasure. What's even better is having her on top of you while you are seated and placing her nipples in your mouth, one at a time. While you let the head of your penis tease her vagina, hold on to her breasts, placing each nipple into your mouth one at a time. Breast play should be something that's incorporated into your entire foreplay experience, so make the breast touch an interesting situation and pay close attention to them. Let me now talk about kissing. Kissing Here, I won’t be focusing mainly on kissing her in her mouth because there are other favourite places where she wants you to kiss her. Your mouth can be applied to various other parts of her body by kissing, licking, nibbling, biting, and sucking. Anywhere you touch her with your hands will most likely feel even better when stimulated by a warm kiss. When it comes to kissing women, some of their favorite places are obvious, while others are frequently overlooked. Let me tell you the places where your kisses can wreck a lot of havoc on her and get her to melt. Ears I have already told you later on in this report that the ears are sensitive. The ears are an often-neglected area of the body that can be the site of intense pleasure for her and using your mouth is the best way to stimulate them. Gentle nibbling on the earlobe is a reliable way to send shivers down her spine, but you should also try lightly brushing your lips against her ear, which will rouse the soft, fine hairs there creating waves of tingly pleasure. Back of her neck One of the easiest and most dependable ways to get her in the mood is to place your mouth on the back of her neck. This works especially well if you take her by surprise. When she’s at the sink doing dishes or working on something else, approach her quietly from behind, sweep her hair off the back of her neck and kiss her there. She will soon forget her task and want more. Face There are few things more personal than kissing a woman on the face. Your warm, fuzzy feelings for her can be expressed by placing sweet, light kisses on her cheeks, forehead, jaw line, even her nose and closed eyelids. But don’t lick her face. Just don’t. It’s not sexy. No biting either. Her face should be treated with tenderness. Collarbone While her clothes are still on, one of the most intimate places you can lay some kisses is along her collarbone. A woman’s exposed collarbone is sexy and your mouth on it makes her think of your mouth on more private parts of her body. So start off with kisses there before you move on to places you can’t reach while she’s fully clothed. Hips The hips are more sensitive than you would guess. It could be because they are so close to the center of her physical pleasure. Whatever the reason, kissing, licking and nibbling at her hips will send currents of delight down to her toes and up to the top of her head. Don’t neglect this place she wants your mouth to be there. Breasts Putting your mouth on her breasts can be intensely sexy, but doing it wrong can turn her right off. Kissing, licking and sucking are all recommended and even some gentle biting can be acceptable as long as you take it easy. Her breasts are delicate, so don’t forget that you have to treat them appropriately. Also, remember like I told you later on that her nipples are not the only parts that need some attention. Use your mouth all over her breasts for maximum effect. Depending on each woman, there are some parts of her body that she may not be convenient with you kissing her there. Once you move your mouth to a particular place and she becomes resistant, you need to know that you have to move your mouth away from there. I hope all these makes sense to you.